I'm spending some time with a close friend, as he's stressing about getting married to a woman that's given him an ultimatum... "Marry me soon, or I'm leaving". My friend has spent years with her, and has now hit a fork in the road where he must make a choice, and it looks like he's simply going to give her everything she wants.
He's my friend, and i can tell he need to get a lot off his chest and be clear about the decision he's going to make. It's not as clear cut as 'Just red-pill him!"... no. no, it is not.
When someone's on an emotional roller-coaster like this - logic can't often be heard.
When someone's on an emotional roller-coaster like this - logic can't often be heard.
If a woman gives an ultimatum then she will never be "secure" in the relationship (IMHO). Being with someone should be enough, but I speak as a red pilled woman. If I remember correctly - lawyers will be involved with a pre-nup -- If she gave him an ultimatum what are the chances that she'll say something to the affect that she's offended that he would make her sign one or something like that?
ReplyDeleteI have learned the hard way that these extreme sh*t tests only lead to more extremes unless the guy says no and calls her out on it. I hope for the best for him but have nothing but trepidation about the reality.