Sunday, September 20, 2020

Saturday, September 12, 2020

The limits of small talk

I tend to fall asleep during dull chit-chat. I can’t keep the fake “one-liners” going past the first stages of politeness. But small talk can also act as a gate-keeper to someone letting their guard down.

Thursday, September 10, 2020

Why men don’t share their feelings | An interview with a vampire

Women often want men to “open up about their feelings”... but in my experience, they don’t care about a man’s feelings unless those feelings are about her.

Why we idealize relationships from the past

“Why can’t men let go of the picturesque 50s fantasy? It’s a blip in history. It was the exception, not the rule for how society operates.”  - MrHighway

Thursday, September 3, 2020

Women don’t want to be understood - They want attention

Women often claim that they simply want to be “understood” by men in relationships, but I’m sceptical. I think women want to be the main person in the relationship. The focus of the attention.A

Why I think about women - ( Because my life matters )

Nature makes the smartest man into an idiot when cleavage walks by, so, apart from avoiding women, I think knowing where you stand (philosophically and practically) is essential.

Good judgement is subtraction

Occam’s Razor is usually the best perspective to take. Overthinking can often take you WAY off course. Especially for those of us who PRIDE ourselves on being broad minded and intellectually curious.

Hookup Culture | Loneliness with strangers

Flipping partners, hooking up, and spinning plates...On the surface it looks like freedom, safety, and endless choice.

Women who want it ALL - Hypergamy refuses to choose

I'm generalising, sure, but I think women’s resistance to making a choice is rooted in (1) A lack of responsibility for standing by the choice, and (2) Their hypergamy has limited branches to swing to as a result of making a choice.

Start a business dude!

The answer for many men is to simply “start a business”... but is it simply another job?